Sunday, November 12, 2006
On this day:

"be all you can be" --for Me

my experience the army has given me a very jaded view of women in general and women as wives. i just think a man that is trying his best, who is doing what he has to do to support his family.... and if that requires him to be away from home all the time... which sucks for the wife and is hard to deal with or whatever... if you can't handle that, then tell the person you're with and choose the honorable option... divorce him, leave, do whatever... but don't stab this person in the back who is trying to help you, who provides for you, who gives you everything.

a guy i knew who was on a 9 month deployment came back home and his wife had emptied his bank account, his home, took his car, his kids and left. are you that selfish? i mean, what the hell? if your guy is working his ass off for you, maybe you should give him at least a little heads up before you just stab him in the back and fuck around on him, y'know? men or women: if your partner isn't doing what works for you -- you need to say something, get counseling, a divorce DO SOMETHING but to sleep around on him and take his money without any regard for yourself, then i hope karma comes back and bites you in the ass vigorously. because nobody deserves that kind of betrayal. that's what it is: BETRAYAL. it's about the lowest thing you can do. who needs enemies with a partner like you. THere's enough crap out in the world without having to come home to that crap. your family is supposed to be the one thing you can rely on. if your own partner is doing that to you, what kind of life is that?

i don't know... i feel so inarticulate. there's enough pain and ugliness in this world without having to do that to the people that you're supposed to love. your partner. i'm not trying to be preachy... nobody is without their faults, nobody's perfect... but if you're not trying your damnedest to at least keep some semblance of morality, then don't be surprised when the shit hits the fan, or somebody cheats on you or when he divorces your ass and takes everything. if you live by the gun you should fully expect to die by the gun.

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Blogger Canopenner said...

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8:11 AM  
Blogger Canopenner said...

I think that this is very articulately written, and I also agree 100%

Especially when the guy is away in a foreign land serving his God and country, thats absolutely dispicable.

But dont worry, Im a firm believer that what goes around comes around. And Karma will kick that chick in the nuts. If not in this world then in the next.

8:14 AM  
Blogger flic said...

The red-headed lady doesn't answer that guy with the mustache!

9:39 AM  

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